The Importance Of Self Confidence
What is Self
Confidence?
To be able to
achieve a goal you need skills, discipline, determination, capability and self
confidence. Self confidence comes from
having the right kind of skills and clarity of goals to be achieved. The
clearer the goal, the better the focus of mind and self confidence. Nothing
great was ever achieved by people who lacked confidence. A capable body and
mind will not function to their greatest potential if not backed by self
confidence. Self confidence, hence, is the pivot on which all the creative and
analytical abilities of the mind rest on.
Low self confidence can impair the functioning of both the body and
mind, resulting in failure. Self confidence is the measure of one’s collective
ability to march right ahead to achieve a said goal.
The visibility factor
Self confidence
has a way of being visible. You can tell by observing the very manner of a
person walking, communicating, working, socializing, as to whether he is
confident or not. The very first handshake with a person will tell her level of
self confidence. A self-confident person truly stands apart. Drooping
shoulders, falling jaws, undecided steps are not the characteristics of a
confident person. Confidence is infectious; the very presence of a
self-confident person tends to charge up the air around him. Everything
automatically falls in place for a confident person, and the world stands apart
for the man who walks with sure, confident steps. A confident person commands respect as well.
Self Confidence – the basis of all achievement!
Great things are
seldom achieved without necessary confidence. All the skills and efforts
possible are useless if confidence is lacking. Low confidence halts your steps
and you cannot take initiative. Low self confidence paralyzes both the body and
mind at the time of making decision. It leaves you undecided and the undecided
are swept away. There is no place for the undecided in this world where success
is worshipped, and success seldom comes to someone who is undecided. As the old
saying goes, you must stand for something or you will fall for anything – and
it’s your confidence that holds you together or breaks you apart.
Confidence isn't genetic nor it is hereditary. Nobody is born confident. Confidence is acquired.
Confidence is learned. Confidence is improved. Confidence is practiced. And
confidence can be generated. You need to first realize the importance of
confidence before you can make any efforts to get better with it. It’s very
much in your hands to develop a self-confident behavior.
Confidence brings out the fighter in you
It is said that
one has to take risks to achieve something. There’s no gain without pain, as
we’ve all heard. So what is it that enables one person to go ahead and take
risks while another is held back? Yes, it’s the level of confidence that makes
people come out and lead from the front without caring for failure. It’s this
belief in oneself that differentiates achievement from failure. It’s sometimes
the bald guy who takes the girl because he has something more than the handsome
guys around – yes, you guessed it right, he oozes self confidence that makes
the lady weak in her knees!
Confidence in themselves was behind scores of
people who broke the shackles of a well- paying, “secure” job to pursue their dream of
creating something, being something and ended up building great businesses.
Surely what turned these seemingly ordinary men and women who were stuck in the
nine-to-five ordeal into successful entrepreneurs was nothing but a belief in
their dreams and immense self-confidence!
Be Confident
In today’s world
of competition, confidence isn’t just an asset. It forms the very basis of your
survival. Getting a good job means you need to be confident in the interview.
Getting a raise, again, needs you to be confident at work. The confident ones
are the ones who get attention. Attention brings acceptance and acceptance
brings love, peace and energy that make you efficient. Efficiency makes you an
achiever and achievement makes you even more confident.
And when you are
confident, can happiness and riches be far behind? Make sure that you are never
out of this magical spiral. Believe in yourself, get going; tell yourself that
you have it in you. Because ultimately the one who wins is the one who thinks
he can!
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