Showing posts with label Personality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personality. Show all posts

Are the "Mind" and the "Heart" Separate?


       Let's start by accepting that those who follow the "way" of the head or the heart are actually being distracted and turning from consciousness. If you want to find the face you were born with, the true you, you cannot follow these "ways."
       So, that tells us that we must begin to witness both ways. We understand that the brain is associated with learning, logic, and analysis. It is the organ or vessel that makes life more complex by constantly asking "why?"
     

what the term Personality means for you ?


     First let us be clear what the term Personality means. ‘Persona’ means mask, that bespeak that we're just changing masks all the time. To clarify this look into any individual’s day in a life, in the morning before leaving for office he’s father, husband and a son. Then he travels to his office and in the process interacts with society where he puts on the mask of a citizen. At work place he is a boss/subordinate etc. so he has to behave accordingly, that is putting on the appropriate mask. Again after office he returns home and again puts on the mask of being a father, husband and a son. Hence the term Personality Development directs towards how capable one is in shuffling the mask as per need of the situation with right context.
    To make it simple let’s assume the guy in the above example puts on the same mask of being a father/husband/son in the workplace, will it work? No!!! He has to be an employee so he has to put on the mask of a boss/subordinate. In many cases the marital harmony is also disrupted due this mask, that is, if one continues to be a boss in the house, then person starts treating everybody in his home as his subordinates and starts bossing around.
     Let’s understand the term Personality Development, it means how well you perform in that particular mask meaning, how good a father/mother are you? How well do you perform as an employee? Etc... 

Personality Development means sharpening the edges in that particular role. So Personality Development is an overall growth of an individual and not only speaking well, walking confidently which is the generally limited understanding.